
At Donor Concierge, we help you find a donor with the characteristics that matter most to you. Our goal is to find you a donor who reflects the traits and qualities you value. If resemblance is important to you, our team has the tools and expertise to guide you in finding a donor who complements your family’s characteristics well.
How do I find an egg or sperm donor who looks like me?
We suggest being open to a variety of physical characteristics to increase the pool of egg and sperm donors available to you. If your search criteria are too narrow, you may limit your options.
Here are just some of the physical traits we can search by:
Body Type
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A tall egg donor or sperm donor
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An athletic egg donor or sperm donor
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A petite egg donor
Appearance
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An egg donor or sperm donor with blue eyes
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A blonde egg donor or sperm donor
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An egg donor or sperm donor with light or dark skin
If resemblance is important to you, our team has the tools and expertise to guide you in finding a donor who complements your family’s characteristics well. While we can't find someone who looks exactly like you, we can help you find a close match.








Donors with specific physical traits
It's completely normal to seek smart and beautiful egg donors or sperm donors. Many intended parents want their children to resemble their family, and focusing on physical traits during the donor search can help achieve this goal.
One of the biggest challenges for intended parents is defining their preferences for a donor's appearance. Your case manager will discuss your physical characteristics with you to help clarify what is most important in your search. For example, you may prefer tall egg donors or sperm donors if everyone in your family is tall, or you might want a blonde donor or even an athletic donor.
To optimize your search for the best egg donor who resembles you and your family, you will:
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Complete an intake form detailing your key physical characteristics.
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Narrow down your choices based on general search categories such as eye color, hair color, facial features, and skin tone.
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Include specific keywords to refine your search, such as "tall donor," "blonde donor," "athletic donor," or "red-haired donor."
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Share pictures of yourself, your partner, or your family with your case manager to provide a point of reference during their search.

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What about finding a donor with a specific blood type?
Many intended parents request that we search for a donor based on blood type. While we encourage you not to focus on a specific blood type, as this can limit your options, we understand that our clients may have unique needs. We recognize that cultural considerations may affect the blood type you prefer, and we'll do our best to provide a carefully selected list of donors who meet your criteria. You can trust that our team is:
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Culturally informed
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Familiar with all top-tier databases that may have your ideal match
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Trained to curate candidates from Donor Concierge's exclusive network of 25k+ donors
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Ready to review all potential profiles that make the short-list to ensure they are as close a match to your dream donor as possible
Our team has nearly two decades of experience matching parents like you with donors who meet your specific criteria to find your ideal match. We sift through more than 25,000 donors in our agency network to find egg and sperm donors who meet your needs, curating and presenting a list of top-tier potential matches.
Find a donor near you
While finding a donor near you isn’t a requirement — agencies will coordinate a donor’s travel to your fertility clinic — proximity is important to some clients. The Donor Concierge team can match you with a donor in your preferred city, state, or region. (If you’re an international parent working with a US-based fertility clinic, the same rules apply!)
Our nationwide network of agencies and databases enables us to zero in on the specific location you desire.
Please find some state-specific egg donor information in the below links:
Please find some state-specific sperm donor information in the below links:
Testimonials

“Today is insemination day! We are so excited and so grateful that we found the perfect donor. We just wanted to write to tell you again just how grateful we are to you both for making this possible, and to let you know that you are in our hearts on this very special day. Thank you.”
Lauren and John
“Everyone had such expertise, and such a desire to help, and we appreciated that immensely. Thank you Donor Concierge!”
Lisa and James
“I don't know what we would have done without Donor Concierge. Searching on your own is overwhelming and confusing. Our case managers send us every possible donor in a neatly formatted PDF direct to our inboxes. They cared deeply about us and our search, and were incredibly warm and kind through an emotionally difficult process. Within a week, we found the perfect donor and are now 8 weeks pregnant. We're extremely grateful.”
Louisa and Ron


