How To Find the Right Egg or Sperm Donor in 6 Clear Steps

Your egg or sperm donation search doesn’t have to be isolating, and you don’t have to worry about how to find the best egg or sperm donor for your family. With Donor Concierge as a partner, not only do you have a friendly expert by your side, but you also benefit from our expedited search process with proven results—just ask any of our Donor Concierge intended parents! 

We center your experience and needs in every step of our process, from our first consultation call to your final match and sometimes even beyond, like with our Private Client Full Journey Support service. Under that service, you can count on us to work with you through delivery and a postnatal care plan. 

How To Find the Right Egg or Sperm Donor in 6 Clear Steps

While we tailor our search to each family’s needs and wishes, our Donor Concierge matching process is designed to help anyone find their match, every time.

Step 1: We walk you through a dedicated Pre-Search call. 

During our Pre-Search call, we get to know you. One of our experienced team members will listen to your specific criteria for sperm or egg donors. We will ask you questions about your donor search experience until now and what your hopes are for your donor search moving forward. We promise you will have our undivided attention from the very beginning. You won’t have to navigate a donor search alone or without the support you deserve. 

Step 2: We present a customized search plan.

We’ll take all the information we learned during your pre-search call and use it to create a customized plan and detailed next steps. We will customize the plan to meet your specific needs and timelines, depending on which of our 3 search services you choose:

• One-Time Donor Search

• Continuous Donor Search

• Private Client - Full Journey Support

Throughout your egg or sperm donor search, we will make sure that you always feel confident in your next steps and that we’re on the same page. It’s one of our biggest priorities as a concierge service.

In your customized plan, you will tell us about your ideal donor traits—from physical attributes to ethnic heritage—and anything else that feels essential for your search. 

Step 3: We pull together a list of candidates for you to choose from. 

Unlike agencies or egg or sperm banks, we aren’t limited to pulling potential donors from a single source. Instead, we have access to over 25,000+ egg donors and relationships with over 30 FDA-approved sperm banks.

We pull no stops when it comes to finding the right donor match for you! With all intended parents, our commitment is the same: In under 3 weeks, we’ll deliver a curated list of top-tier potential donors from our desk to your hands. 

Step 4: We show you complete donor profiles. 

You’ll typically find that egg or sperm banks charge additional fees to allow you to learn more about potential donors. This isn’t the case at Donor Concierge. Working with us, you will have access to all the information available to us about potential donors. We believe that’s the best way for you to make the most informed choice. 

Step 5: We facilitate your access to the donors. 

Once you feel confident in your donor choice, we’re still along for the ride! We don’t leave you to figure out the details on your own. Instead, we act as your point of contact where possible. For instance, we will connect with your fertility clinic team to update them on your search, introduce you to your chosen bank, and relay any follow-up information (including the number of vials you need to purchase).

Step 6: We can support your journey for as long as you’d like. 

We offer 3 distinct services to help you find the ideal egg or sperm donor for your family. Our 3 offerings include a standard search, a custom donor search, and our private client donor searches. Each is customized based on your unique preferences and needs. 

Thanks to our Private Client Egg Donor or Sperm Donor service offerings, we get the joy of working with intended parents beyond the search process. With these offerings, we support intended parents through IVF cycles, pregnancy, and even developing delivery or postnatal care plans. We consider ourselves your partner throughout every step of your journey, and we hope you view us in the same way!  

Ready to learn more? We’re happy to talk with you about your needs and how we can support you—just reach out to us online.